Samia Burton Talks Sexual Compatibility on 'Pour Minds' Podcast

TALLAHASSEE, Fla. — Sexpert Samia Burton was a recent guest on the “Pour Minds” podcast, hosted by Drea and Lex.

As the creator of Sexual Essentials, Burton discussed sexual compatibility, orgasms, blowjobs, squirting and the importance of foreplay and communication.

"A lot of people think that sexual compatibility is just like the sex being good; sometimes our sex drives are different,” Burton shared. "Sometimes the things you’re doing really turn you on but it’s not doing anything for him."

"I came here with this bag full of toys, right? If you mostly fuck with butt plugs, it’s like you’re not really understanding me because you assume you want to fuck the same way I want to, and that’s not realistic,” Burton continued. “Sometimes they’re not speaking your sexual love language.”

The sexpert also brought up "the topic of arousal ('You should have foreplay for about 18 minutes')," noted a rep, "elevating excitement above desire ('Just because you’re in desire mode does not mean you’re aroused') and reaching orgasm ('If you’re not getting fucked well, it’s both of your faults')."

The full episode, titled "Hibachi Titties," runs nearly 90 minutes and can be found on the "Pour Minds" website and YouTube.

Follow Samia Burton online and on Twitter for additional information.

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