Monique Alexander Starts Adult FriendFinder Advice Column

LOS ANGELES — The first sex advice column by Vivid contract performer Monique Alexander has been posted in the magazine section of AdultFriendFinder.com. Alexander succeeds Vivid contract performer Savanna Samson, who previously wrote the sex-advice column.

Alexander recently was seen in Vivid's "Debbie Does Dallas ... Again," and the Showtime series about the making of the production. She also is an on-air sportswriter with the National Lampoon Radio Network's "The Phil Show," heard on XM satellite radio.

In her first column, Alexander answers a question from a husband about how to convince his wife to wear a collar to express their dominant-and-submissive lifestyle, saying, "I know as a woman I hate it when my partner tries to pressure me into something that I'm not ready for. I automatically shut down and don't want to do it at all.

"You should make it seem more like a fantasy of yours. Make it like you want to role-play. The bottom line is, the more you push it, the less chance you're going to have of making it happen, so give her a chance to digest it and hopefully your fantasy of her wearing a collar will become her fantasy as well."

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