Picture a nice Midwestern girl from a small town. She’s in her mid-20s, working in middle management and “very single.” One night, she’s just blowing off some steam with Regina — her vibrator’s name — when she pulls up a live camming site.
“I saw this gorgeous woman,” Odette Parker recalls. “She was bouncing around and laughing, having a great time, and she then started to use her vibrator. I kept noticing this little “Ping ping ping!” sound. Whenever it died down, she seemed to catch her breath a little, but then suddenly I heard it louder. Ping ping ping! She gasped and started writhing around. It finally clicked for me: ‘Oh my God, the vibrator is going off when someone sends her money.’”
Sometimes there is simple beauty in feedback from a man with a raging boner!
Suddenly, the nice Midwestern girl is sitting straight up in bed.
“I looked at myself in the mirror, then looked back at her, then back at myself, with that little “Ping ping ping!” still going on relentlessly in the background,” Parker says. “I literally got up right then and there, registered, submitted my ID, and was verified and streaming the same night. I threw on a Star Wars T-shirt and some panties, had a fantastic time and made money doing it. I quit my retail job a few months later after consistently making triple what my day job paid.”
Since that fateful evening, Parker has won multiple Streamate contests while acquiring a loyal following, on that platform and on OnlyFans. As this month’s featured creator, she shares her personal approach to camming and some key lessons learned along the way.
XBIZ: What is your brand, in a nutshell, as far as your overall vibe, style and personality?
Parker: This will sound like such bullshit, but my brand is just me. I do like to parody industry stereotypes a lot, but I’m also happy to cater to them — one minute I’m mocking the idea of being stuck in a dryer and the next I’m happily climbing into one. I’ve had a lot of people compare me to Aubrey Plaza and Meg from “Hercules,” which is awesome. I’m more dominant-leaning but I’m not mean. Think “black cat” energy, but the cat loves you. The cat is purring, in fact. I think I am the type of person you’d want defending you from a bully.
I really like role-play a lot too. I love the ticking clock when a perfect stranger gives me my role and I’m challenged to quickly get into character. I am a huge Dungeons & Dragons nerd, and for me there is something really fun about being given a scenario and an end goal, with the bonus of having to make it sexy! It feels like a game to me. I usually end up getting super into it and just as surprised as anyone else about all of the crazy things coming out of my mouth.
My biggest fans call me down-to-earth, intelligent, nurturing, firm and funny. I’m not exactly shocked that my energy brings in a lot of step-mom requests… Have you eaten today, by the way?
XBIZ: You work humor into a lot of your posts. Is that an important part of who you are?
Parker: I never meant to become “the funny girl.” It’s just that I find life in general to be chaotic and hilarious. Plus, a lot of new viewers are at least a little self-conscious, and what’s more disarming than laughing and joking around? I love the idea of someone wandering into my room and seeing me laughing my ass off with my tits out, repeating funny things guys in the room are saying and laughing even harder. Now this person who just got here sees that I’m enjoying this, and not just welcoming outside comments but really celebrating them.
XBIZ: Tell us how you cultivate a sense of community with your audience.
Parker: I’ve noticed that if I can get them chatting a bit with each other, it becomes like I am the party that they’re all attending. Or I’m the bartender at their regular watering hole, except the drinks are spankings and titty flashes. A lot of these guys just want to throw around their $20 and make it last, and you know what? That really adds up. I don’t want to be the type of person who only entertains the super-rich. What difference does it make if 10 men spend $10 rather than one man spending $100? I’ve actually seen guys purchase each other’s requests off of my tip menu. I love that.
XBIZ: How have you evolved, personally and professionally, since joining the biz?
Parker: Honestly, I am so much more confident of a person overall now. I used to really tear myself apart and overthink. I never believed people when they called me “beautiful” or whatever. But over the years, the messages, the comments, the high ratings and the contests won have really sunk in for me. After a point, you have to ask yourself, “Why am I so committed to dismissing these compliments?” I look in the mirror now and I see “beautiful eyes,” I see “great tits” I see “nice legs.” These reviews are written all over my body now, and I feel myself rereading them when I see myself. Sometimes there is simple beauty in feedback from a man with a raging boner!
XBIZ: What are some of the biggest challenges you’ve faced, in or out of the industry?
Parker: It’s really weird doing a job that’s completely legal and paying my taxes, just to be denied banking by several different banks. I’ve had a bank account very suddenly shut down when I had no deposits into it from any adult websites. They refused to give me their reason for shutting me down. I just wish there were banks that made a huge deal out of being sex worker-friendly. I would join so fast.
XBIZ: What advice would you share with other aspiring streamers and creators?
Parker: Spend time looking around for the right platform. I also think adaptability is one of the qualities I see most in successful streamers and content creators. Things that used to work or go well will change and you need to be able to roll with those punches. That can be really hard. For instance, JOI is so hot right now. I think a lot of people want to feel like someone is on board with them and truly wants them to have this release. They want to take a break from managing things and they want to be managed, absolutely pampered. I’m very good at that. But eventually, even something that works incredibly well just doesn’t anymore.
It’s hard to let go, sometimes. Like how I used to deep-throat bananas all the time on Instagram, but I got enough warnings that I knew I had to stop — which is such a bummer because that was a great source of potassium.
XBIZ: What is your favorite platform, and what features do you appreciate most about it?
Parker: I love Streamate above all else, right now. I think they’ve done a great job with designing a platform that mixes group show dynamics and a private show focus all in one place, so that any performer can pick that up and choose what to prioritize. I really like that I can host group shows with a low buy-in and entertain a lot of people at once while just doing my own thing and embracing my creative energy — and then turn around and do a much more tailored, higher-priced one-on-one exclusive show, and it’s all on one platform. There’s really no way that you can show up in my room and say “I can’t afford any of this” when I’m able to structure my space so that you could spin a wheel that lands on all kinds of explicit prizes and do it three times before you’ve hit the price of my Starbucks order this morning. Streamate’s competitions also line up perfectly with my insane energy bursts, so it’s a fantastic fit.
XBIZ: When you’re not working, what do you do during your downtime to decompress? Any fun hobbies or passions?
Parker: I spend a lot of time talking to other creators and it keeps my spirits high. We have a big group chat and we host group voice calls monthly. I love the way we interact and build each other up. It’s so fun to mingle with new names and old friends on a regular basis, because ironically this hyper-social job can get so isolating. It’s pretty much a sales job where you yourself are the product, so your ego tends to get tied up in the ebb and flow, which is really hard to process alone. I hope I can really deepen some of the budding friendships I’ve already established. No woman is an island, not even a solo performer.
As far as hobbies go: I’m totally a gamer. My parents got me into games as a kid; they’re gamers too. I am a tech nerd and have been building and upgrading PCs since I was a child. I’m sure that’s a big part of why this all came naturally to me — I was already chronically online. I think my PC is worth more than my car, after all the upgrades! I have this huge, curved monitor and noise-cancelling headphones. I love to turn off all the lights, light some candles and allow myself to be carried away to another world in immersive games. I also love to read, for the exact same reasons. My die-hard fans could probably tell you my top five favorite novels.
XBIZ: What’s your outlook for the future? Any career predictions?
Parker: Early on, I assumed that the novelty of this would wear off and I’d need to decide if this is an “in my 20s” job or a true career. You know what’s crazy? The novelty never wore off. We all know anything could happen, but I have no plans for retiring or transitioning out because of some fine lines. In fact, nothing has helped my career nearly as much as turning 30 did!X
